Pro Domme Sessions: Protect Yourself

I was asked by a person interested in Professional Domination, who I shall call “D”, if meeting clients in locations that are not densely populated nor have proper security surveillance is possible?  Because some guy asked if “D” could meet him at some random hotel out about 75+ miles away from the city that they both lived in.  He gave a lame excuse about “Not wanting his wife to know that he was seeing a Pro Domme for a session.”.

Now I know this person is new to the “game” so I gave Her these tips to help keep safe while out dealing with clients:

1. Send via email a brief application for the client to review, and also send a copy of your rules for sessions.  This way you will have important information that can help save you in the long run.
2. When scheduling a session, make sure you get his full name, phone number, and email address prior to scheduling.  Never know when the said client will actually flake out on you.  Do a Reverse Search on the phone number to get a general idea of where said client is from.
3. Always make a “Safe Call” to someone you know (i.e. Mother, Sister, Brother, BFF, etc.) and always get a deposit!!  Never take an appointment without a deposit.
4. Arrive at least 30 mins early, to scope out the environment.  Know where the Emergency Exits, Maintenance, and Entrances are.  Speak with the Hotel Staff if you can before going to your scheduled appointment, as they might have some details that you may find interesting. Like if he creeps out the House Maids because he’s a douche bag, always touching them inappropriately and asking for sexual favors from them while cleaning up his room.  This is a sure sign that you need to go.
5. When packing your gear into your bag, make sure that your a) Your handcuffs or zip ties (whichever you use for scenes) are where you can reach them and b) always keep a can of pepper spray or mace (buy online on Amazon) on your key ring or in Your corset.  I usually keep it between my voluptuous breasts for when the idiots are not looking.
6.  Make sure that you are aware of your surroundings as some men do not come alone.  Always park your car (if you have driven yourself to the location) as close to the main entrance as possible.  Do not park in the far back of the lot or behind the building to be closer to the other access entrance as this is a possibility for disaster.
7. **Most Important** Always keep 911 first on your speed dial!! You never know when you will need it.  Also, do not hang up on the Operator!  Let them track your cellphone via GPS in the event that something does happen.  The recording can help save someone’s life down the line.

These simple rules above has helped Me out a lot.  However, as a Female Bouncer, I know that not every guy is the same.  Not every guy is capable of hurting My person, yet not every guy can shatter bones with a single punch either.  Keep up your guard, take Tai Kwon Do classes and other forms of Martial Arts/Self Defense classes offered.  They do help in the long run and We will be safer for it.