A Financial Submissive/Slave Guide to the Financial Dominant (Edited & Updated)

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I strongly recommend ALL potential fin subs/slaves read this. It is imperative to actually show success with finding a FinDom and the like.

*Please Note that this has a lot of curse words in it. Simply because it is fucking aggravating when subs/slaves don’t adhere to simple instructions…

Rule #1: Actually read the fucking profile!

Many FinDoms (Male & Female) will have a mini-test in their profile to see if the fin sub/slave actually read their profile.  It is normally something simple like “What is your favorite color?  Tell me in the Subject line.” or “What is your favorite food?”.  This is basically an opinion-related answer, so don’t copy/paste the same material over and over again.  If you do, it will notify the person that it may be SPAM. 

Rule #2:  Do not copy/paste messages to potential FinDoms…

If a message sounds too generic, with nothing pointing out specifically as to WHY you are interested in THIS particular FinDom, they will likely see it and ignore you.  Or worse, snarl a nasty response to you.  Then where will that get you?

Rule #3:  Do not ask for any kind of Verification.  Especially if there’s already some form of it out there…

There’s a few ways for a FinDom to verify themselves.  Most of them will state “verified” or have some kind of picture (such as a pic of them with a sign holding up their usernames).  MOST WILL CHARGE FOR SKYPE OR KIK!  Even if this is a small fee (approx. 1-5 US Dollars), most if not all “legitimate” FinDoms will charge a small fee. Especially since this fetish is all about the money.  DO NOT expect ANYTHING given in this community for free. They are not suddenly “fakes” because they ask for a small fee for Skype, Kik,  or whatever.

If you are looking online for some form of “Verification” on a potential FinDom (be they Male or Female), check to see if they are members of a Financial Domination website like Elite Financial Domination, DomiReview, etc. Save yourself the headaches and do your research.

Rule #4: You are paying for THEIR time, NOT the other way around

Some fin subs/slaves get too big for their pants and suddenly start acting like you need to pay for their time, when in fact it is the fucking opposite. There is the Dom/sub dynamic (or Master/slave) for a fucking reason.  Topping-from-the-bottom will only get the FinDom angry, which can lead to a lot of unpleasantness… For you.

Rule #5 Don’t trust ANYONE who uses: PayPal, Square, Cash, or Google Wallet

Why? Because this is STRICTLY against these companies Terms of Service. If you are, you are risking your account being banned and your funds frozen.

What are some good alternatives for receiving tributes?

1. OkPay

2. Payoneer

3. GiftRocket

4. Zombaoi

5. NiteFlirt (Include the 30% fee so as the FinDom you are sending money to gets the FULL amount.)

6. Alertpay

7. Amazon ELECTRONIC gift cards

8.  Verotell

9. Bitcoin based products (Coinbase for example)

Rule #6: Respect Any FinDom’s Privacy

If a Dom doesn’t feel comfortable with Skype (or meeting in person) AND has a photo of themselves, trust them. What’s a good way to check? Copy the URL of their image, and reverse Google Image Search it. You do this by going to Google Images, and clicking on the little camera-looking icon at the right hand side of the search bar. Paste the URL in the space by the camera-looking icon and hit “enter”. If hits show up related to a stock photo, or some random person on social media, THEY ARE PROBABLY FAKE!

Another way to check the “legitimacy” of a FinDom is to see if they have other accounts set up.  Most FinDoms have a minimum of 2-3+ accounts set up across sites, such as (but not limited to): Fetlife, Collarspace, Instagram, Facebook, Snapchat, Kik, Twitter, and Skype. The most common ones are Fetlife, Collarspace, Instagram, Twitter, Vine, Facebook, and Skype.  If you can not find them on any of these Social Media websites, THEY ARE PROBABLY FAKE!!

Point of Information: Not all are using an Alias on Facebook, some have pages where you will probably see photos of family & friends.  DO NOT POST ON THEIR PERSONAL PHOTOS! Not every FinDom’s family & friends want to see losers begging to be drained or used.  Use common sense.

Rule #7: Nothing is fucking FREE!!

Emphasis on what is stated above!!

• DO NOT expect a FinDom to give out their usernames for different services for free.
• DO NOT add a FinDom to your friends list on ANY social media WITHOUT their explicit permission first. This is downright disrespectful to the Dom (again, this is a D/s and M/s relationship for a reason).

Rule #8: Respect the FinDom’s/FinDomme’s time…

Most FinDoms have jobs, school, or other important real life matters (as well as their FinDom life) to attend to.  DO NOT expect them to be available 24/7, unless explicitly stated in your agreement terms.  This is unfair to the FinDom.  If you agreed to have them for only 30 minutes per day, do not expect them to suddenly give you an hour.  If you are given an INCH, and suddenly decide that you want to take a YARD… you will most likely be dismissed.

Rule #9: Stop with the excessive “peacocking”…

If you tell a FinDom:  “I can give you 1000 US dollars a week :D”… We will probably roll our eyes at you.  We know the economy is in the shitter right now.  Not to mention most guys who are that rich typically aren’t interested in being a financial submissive/slave.  Don’t be writing “I R LOOOOOSER” or something like that on your face either.  We get it, you’re into humiliation. You just need to say: “One of my fetishes is humiliation…” or something along those lines in your profile or introduction email.  Remember:  Not every FinDom is into humiliation. And quite frankly, you just look ridiculous… LMFAO

Rule #10: RESPECT… RESPECT… RESPECT!!!

How can I not emphasize this enough!!  Clearly you didn’t read your potential FinDoms profile when you began asking for the same information that is on their profile. And yet when asked if you did read the profile, you say “Oh, I did…” or some bullshit like that, and and still are asking questions… To put it simply, we are going to block you and/or roll our eyes at you and give you a snappy/bitchy response.  So do be surprised when you get that response and start calling Us “Gold Digging Whores”, etc. simply because you did NOT follow instructions.

I didn’t hit everything but this is a good chunk of “DOs and DON’Ts” in the FinDom community that, quite frankly, us FinDoms are bloody sick of seeing over and over again from potential subs/slaves. 

 

The Original Author of this blog post was very insightful and hit the nail on the head about how some of you losers approach members of this Community. I simply can not stand trying to read something with multiple Grammatical errors and run-on sentences.  LOL