Domina Vengeance Answers Questions

This question was recently asked to me concerning tributes. Now I know that this has been an ongoing question from the kinksters who seem to think that they can automatically play for free, so to answer this question I’m going to give it in parts. The first part of this is the general consensus. The second part is my opinion.

Part One: General Consensus

In order to understand what exactly is expected of you, as a sub/slave in any aspect of the lifestyle, let’s start with the definition of tribute.

For the sake of clarity I’m going to use the first three definitions. Now as stated a tribute is “a gift, testimonial, compliment, or the like given as due or an acknowledgment of gratitude or esteem.” When interacting with a male or female dominant, a tribute is exactly that, a gift given freely without expectation for something in return. Or a means of attracting attention to one self for the consideration of doing something to make someone happy. It isn’t a means of getting out of something like paying for a session with a Professional Dominatrix or Financial Humiliatrix. It seems simple enough, doesn’t it?

So let’s look at the second definition:

The second definition says “a stated sum or other valuable consideration paid by One sovereign or state to another in acknowledgment of subjugation or as the price for peace, security, protection, or the like.” This should be self-explanatory, however the intricacies of what this means varies from person to person.  In order for a sub or slave to get the attention of the Sovereign (Dom/Domme) they are seeking to serve, (in order to receive whatever it is that they want or desire) they have to get His or Her attention. Most times, if not all, it is in the form of money. However it can be anything. It can be gift cards, cash sent via a banking app, something purchased off of a wish list that the “Sovereign” may have online at a website, etc.  The “Sovereign” is willing to receive such gifts, just depends on what He or She seeks in order to get His or Her attention. If you want to get her attention by sending her a car that you purchased for her then you do whatever it is necessary to obtain said object in order to give. Because He or She deserves it.

The final definition of tribute is “a rent, tax, or the like, as that paid by a subject to the sovereign.” Do you understand what it means to pay a Cum Tax? In order to be allowed to cum, you must ask for permission in order to do so. And even if so, you have to pay for the privilege of being allowed to spread your inferior genes. For someone who is into long-term chastity, a chastity tax is paid to the person who has the keys in order to be released for a certain amount of time. For a professional dominatrix, in order to get her attention or your application of servitude you have to send whatever amount she tells you. It is a tax and it does not go towards the full amount for whatever it is you’re looking for. Be it a real-time session (professional session), shopping trip to a local mall (findom), or simply picking up something small for your lifestyle Dom/Domme. If you want to get their attention you will do whatever it takes to get it.

My Opinion on Tributes

In order to get any Domme’s attention, and I know that the Ladies will agree with this statement, you MUST show that you are sincere in how much you want to serve. You can’t simply hand a Domme “chump change” thinking that she’s going to do anything you ask. If you’re looking for control from a female dominant, and you’re willing to show her exactly how much you want to serve her, he will put initiative and expression and how much of a gift or tribute you are sending. Some of us have a minimum deposit for a gift or tribute. The minimum is for those who basically are just going to send and run. Those are the ones that are not truly ready to submit and serve. Now, a sub/slave who truly wants to serve is not going to send the bare minimum. No they’re going to show exactly how much they want to serve. They will research said Dom or Domme in order to understand exactly what it is He/She is looking for. Then determine how much to send without feeling like a useless bag of trash afterwards. Because they did the research and know that this individual will not simply take from them and disappear. They will make sure that they also have a clear budget weekly/monthly so as to not be short on things they have going on in their own life while trying to take care of their “Sovereign”.

How to Serve

Not everyone has the following ways of accepting tributes, mostly because there’s been a major crackdown with various companies due to butt hurt individuals contacting their bank and requesting charge backs. Claiming that they never received something that they requested.

Here are the places I accept tributes:

• Cashapp: $dominavengeance
• Venmo: @dominavengeance
• GPay: hausdevengeance.mv@gmail.com
• Stash: https://get.stash.com/domina_rtlhpp9
• Gift cards: Email to DominaVengeance@protonmail.com
• Direct Deposits: Earn the privilege.