What has Domina been up to…

With all the drama going on in the world: war with Russia & China over mundane and antiquated beliefs on how the world should be ran, governmental collapse because some idiots in Congress seek to return America back to “Jim Crow Era” thinking by any means necessary, and the ever lingering and mutating COVID virus… One would think that it’s the end of the world… Maybe. What about Domina?

Well…

What is going on with Domina Vengeance? Knowing that she doesn’t beg for help in anything going on with her, you’d think that her life is perfect… I can tell you it is not. Here’s what I have going on:

• $14,000.00 in debt to Landlord, phone bill…
• Possibility of foot surgery & other health issues
• Looking for gainful employment has become a struggle (mentally)
• Problems within the Family
• A new relationship…

I will elaborate on the situation:
After losing the one person who kept the family together, and was an integral part of my life to Covid two years ago (03/07/2021), it has been physically and mentally draining to even get up out of bed to focus on work. 6 months ago things came to a head with my “family” because of “money”. A member of my family thought that she was going to basically live rent free in my home with her children and pay the bare minimum ($200/month) for expenses while she reaped the benefits. 😒😒 Just because you decide to spend between $700-$1,500 on birthday parties for people who will not remember them (nor care) doesn’t mean shit in the way the world runs. Before you can “party” you have to make sure that your bills are taken care of first!! Unfortunately, some in the family seem to think that I should become a “spinster” and simply babysit children for FREE. Wtf?!?

I love being WHO I AM. However, it doesn’t give anyone the right to treat a person the way I was treated, regardless if you are/are not my own flesh and blood. Do you think I am looking for sympathy? No. For every situation I have been in, the only thing that has changed is how I deal with them. Kicking out the individual after expressing how I felt on the matter (after the individual took a literal bite out of my left breast), rushing to the hospital to be treated only to be ultimately left holding a bag of debt… I honestly could have done a whole lot worse, if the person wasn’t my child. 🙄🙄🙄 However, you treat people the way you would expect to be treated. If I’m putting all of my money into something and not getting any benefit from it, then something has to change.

I have been looking for employment, only to get to a first interview. Forget that there is a growing need for employable individuals who really want a job (like myself), it’s how some people see you. I’m knowledgeable, computer literate, have Vocational Certifications in various computer applications, office skills, etc. Not to mention I am a people person. I would literally starve to help someone. It’s just who I am, and those who are close to me know it. Those who have worked with me in the 25+ years of Nightclub Security know that I am no pushover either. I did my job better than most and had no complaints from my coworkers. Some think that I should have started my own Security team. Others thought I would have opened up a Security firm by now. 👌👌 No thanks.
I’ve had enough of that industry…

Back to the debt…
$14,000 (as of 03/02/2023) is due. I have gone to various entities to get help with the issue only to be told that they will only help me if I get a “real” job. Excuse me, isn’t being a Professional Domme & PSO considered “employment”? Some people don’t consider what I do work. No matter how many times I show proof that I am bringing in money, it’s a problem. Can show bank statements and plenty of other proof, but the answer is still “No. Sorry, we can’t help you.” “Maybe if you get a job we will help you.”… See my frustration??? 🙄🙄🙄🙄

On top of that, trying to keep my phone on for Pro Domme sessions with sub males, doctor appointments, and in case of emergencies.

Surgery on Feet

Yes, you have read that right. My Podiatrist has recommended that I get surgery on my feet. I have two hammer toes, my pinky toes. 😂😂 Now we all have been rough on our feet growing up. How many times has anyone stubbed their toe, or dropped/had something dropped on their foot? I know I have done it quite a few times. People stepping/stomping on your foot for some reason or another. Well, he thinks it’s time to address the issue… My Podiatrist is also treating my feet for a bacterial & fungal infection on my feet. The bacterial & fungal infection has resulted in an annoying itch that has me scratching like crazy and digging into them. Bad enough I have Osteoarthritis from my ankles to toes in both feet which is a pain in the ass in itself (no high heels). So far, I have been getting x-rays of my feet and ankles so that he can create a plan of action, given me medications for the infection (bacterial and fungal) and pain (if any).

Other Health issues

With everything I got going on, you’d think a person would have had a heart attack by now (at least that’s what my family is hoping for 🤷‍♀️). Yes, my blood pressure has been high. However, I have been getting taken care of by a wonderful individual who reminds me to take my medication daily. We are both working together on losing weight (put on a lot of stress/COVID weight) by going to the gym as often as possible. However, I haven’t been interested in my usual walk down on the waterfront due to the weather and a friend who moved out the area due to a new job in another state. I miss my BFF! Anyone my family doesn’t like is a friend to me! Our walks were very therapeutic. She vented about work, while I vented about my family. I became a member of her family (figuratively, not literally), giving each other advice and opinions on situations, when asked. She’s a diamond in the rough. One in a Million. Miss you Zoe!

New Relationship

During all this chaos, I thought that I was going to be in a relationship with someone who obviously didn’t want to be in one with me. How did I figure it out? A picture that was posted of a trip he took to Belize in 2022. If you say you’re going on vacation alone, make sure that the female you took with you doesn’t leave her things around. 🤨🤔🤨 Picture showed a purse on a table in the vestibule of the suite. Remember the old saying “Lay down with dogs, you’re bound to catch fleas…”? Yeah… No thanks. I can do bad all by myself. So after seeing that picture I have been keeping him FAR away. Besides, he’s only good for the dick. 😎😎😎 My Domme Sistaz, you know who I’m talking about!!! I showed some of you a picture of him in private.

So, instead, I’ve been working on myself and what I want in a relationship. Took a year, but he found ME! Ironically, He’s a SWITCH! 🤣🤣 Honestly, I can’t stand “switches”. 🤣🤣 We’ve been live on Chaturbate too! Yet every time we’re together he breaks through my harsh, Dominant energy. I’ve cried more times than I care to admit on this man’s shoulder and have not had a complaint yet. Is this “relationship” healthy for me? So far, yeah. I literally spend week days at his place, and every other weekend there to get some work done. No, he’s not ready for me to move in… Yet. Besides, we’ve only been dating for about 5-6 months now. We’re not in any hurry.

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