January 2025: Moved to Birmingham, AL

Happy New Year to you all… and what a way to start the new year off.

Due to my life imploding last month (12/20 to be precise) within my circle and work not fulfilling the void between vanilla life and my own aspirations in this lifestyle, I had to move out of the area. This decision wasn’t made lightly, as I have always wanted to move here. However, the way I was literally forced out (you don’t give someone a 2-day notice simply because they don’t share the same feelings as in the beginning and I definitely made sure to take my sweet ass time preparing to leave.) is going to bite some people in the ass .

How is it going to bite them in the ass, you say? One simple word: KARMA. What happened? Long story short, the cucky boyfriend got himself a “female sub”. I was okay with it, until I started noticing the changes in his behavior towards me. From April 2024 to November 2024, I started noticing that every time I reprimanded them for anything, I would be ignored. Decision making? No one asked for my opinion.

Not to mention the fact that, apparently, they thought that it’s okay to make a mess and not clean up after themselves and leave me stuck with their kids (14/male and 16/female). I am not the maid nor a babysitter. I’m not going to wash shitty clothes belonging to others and then wash mine afterwards. It’s not my responsibility to tell your children how to act or how to address adults. I am not their parents.

You know I definitely wasn’t having it… You need to understand how a Dominant Piscean Female, like myself, thinks. If you don’t want me to start making your life a living hell, then you don’t blatantly disrespect me to my face. Including making changes without at least two months prior notice…  So I took EVERYTHING that I brought with me, AND EVERYTHING THAT WAS BOUGHT FOR ME AND BY ME. He wanted something that belonged to my mother because he wanted it for his “pet”… DENIED! 😆  He’s lucky I didn’t throw the food in the dumpster.

Would that be petty? Trust me, I definitely can get petty.

However, I’m not going to stoop down to their level. Insanity is not my middle name. BLOCKED ALL PARTIES ON ALL SOCIAL MEDIA AND NUMBERS.

So what’s next?

What Has Domina been doing?

Since arriving in Birmingham, AL I have been taking it easy for the first week. To decompress, or at least try to. I’m currently staying with family members in town whilst I look at the housing options for myself. I am also looking for employment opportunities in the area near the new home. Once I get everything situated, I will then head back to NY for my belongings being held in storage and return to my new home. Simple and straightforward.

Did you see me somewhere?

Maybe you’ve seen me in Center Point? Maybe Downtown Birmingham? At the Greyhound/Amtrak station? Walmart? Sam’s Club? Publix? Subway? Dollar Tree/Dollar General? … Well…

You never know where you’re going to see me…

Hello Birmingham! Domina Vengeance has moved to your city!