Can’t stand 😒

Subs who post on X with dribble like this:

Seek attention and message every last Domme who sends their details. Wasting time while playing their PS5 or Xbox consoles.

DMs after initial contact

I believe some of you lost the true sense of what it means to be a financial sub. Why are Sugar Daddies trying to portray themselves off as finsubs? Yeah, some of you are true finsubs. However, there are plenty who are not. Knowing the difference between the two can save a lot of grief in the long term.  The difference between a predator and becoming prey, as it were.

How do you not become prey?

New Dommes vs. Mature Dommes

New Dommes, and I’m sorry to burst your bubble, are the easiest targets for fake finsubs. New Dommes are looking for that “quick fix” when it comes to Findom: “Pay for my night out,” “Buy my dinner,” etc. What about the long game? If you’re under 25 and in Findom, what have you learned? What experience do you have in spotting fakes and timewasters? The answer is NONE. Yet some of you post about situations you know nothing about.

Mature Dommes who have been in the Findom Lifestyle have experience with fake subs and timewasters.  We can spot them a mile away just by how they talk in their post. All the subcommunities on X pertaining to Findom have them. I have joined a few of them, and I’m not impressed by what I see. Most of those posts are traps, set for free access to pictures on your profile so they can get off. Yeah, they’ll subscribe to your OF/Loyalfans/IWC Shop/etc. However, how long may that be? The fakes will move on to easier prey because a Mature Domme will make them spend more and work harder for their attention.

Case in point: Myself.

• All posts on X are SFW. No nudes are ever posted. Did I post NSFW pics before?  Yes, however, due to certain circumstances since then I chose to change this.
• In Spaces on X, I try not to be high or inebriated. Ruins the vibe, in my opinion. I can not concentrate on the topic at hand.
• Any NSFW content I have created will be located on sites where I am selling them (NiteFlirt, Loyalfans, IWC, etc.) and all unedited.
• Crypto is private. I can purchase my own currency and add to my wallets. 
• Credit card payments: I trust no one with that information. So don’t ask.
• Monetary tributes are only accepted through sources I have known about since I began my online Findom Lifestyle. That also doesn’t mean I will accept other forms of tribute. I’ve since added a few new ones and replaced expired options.

Most importantly:

• Still looking for age verification? 😒😒 You losers have got to be kidding me. Never ask a Mature Domme her age. Just know We age like fine wine and get sassier the longer we’re doing what we love.

Hopefully, someone will see this as helpful information.